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The most powerful of suggestions are those which leave a lot to the imagination. Creating in the mind an entire universe of possible outcomes without being inhibited with the actual intention of the person, the non-verbal flirtation co-exists with ambiguity, which we all may know from experience, may either be good or not.
The vaguer, the better. However, it shall not be without context lest it is derogated of potency. There has to be a build up. It should emerge from a series of mini-flirtations until it climaxes into the one most approximate that which the other persons secretly screams for. Flirting is listening to what the other person secretly yearns for and slightly deviating from what is expected and almost giving him/her something way better. Almost being the operative word since you have to leave him/her asking for more. Yes, it’s cruel; but the art of flirting is premised in the notion that the one who cares/gives less holds the power in these kinds of transactions.
On another note, words are not left without any use. As powerful as non-verbal cues, you could have the other person cringe for you if words are used and delivered creatively. There are words laden with value but don’t have absolute meanings; or if they seemingly do, work on a different context which gives it an entirely different and sexy innuendo. The simplest of verbal exchange can be the best orgasm you’ll have if employed with impeccable timing, creativity, and yes, ambiguity.
- Toff Lamug
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